I’ll start off this week’s blog by stating that child birth
is both a miracle and a mystery to me. How a person is created and then comes
out of another person is both insane and unexplainable. I only hope that women realize that NOTHING a
man will ever do compares to what child birth is to them. You ladies are
saints.
That being said, child birth is
perhaps the most terrifying experience for a man, outside of getting your
manhood taken from you that can possibly happen. You are told that “you really help by being
supportive, bringing her ice chips, rubbing her shoulders”. Yeah that’s all
well and good, but really you're just a bumbling fool looking to complete
strangers (the doctors) hoping that they know what the hell they are
doing. I’m fairly certain if the
custodian walked through the door at the hospital and said that he knows what
he’s doing , I would have given him a nod and let him go to work. We really are a clueless bunch. It’s comical and you will never ever EVER worry more than that 24 hour period that your wife/girlfriend is in labor.
Let’s touch on a couple things for
you novices out there. I can go over
this with the general public now that I’m a seasoned veteran in the art of “Watching
a woman create a miracle”. First, don’t
say “you’re between contractions, it doesn't hurt now”. I was doing SOOO well
and that comment set me back at least 3 hours.
I’m fairly certain if I didn't have her arms locked down with the Canadian
arm bar maneuver, that she would have ripped my heart out after that
comment. I learned my lesson for next
time. Secondly, find your Inner Bear
Bryant/Vince Lombardi. You’re a
coach. Use coach speak and sports euphemisms
CONSTANTLY. This especially works if your lady is like mine and is a
competitive sports nut. Phrases such as “EYE
OF THE TIGER”, “THE GAME IS ON THE LINE” and “LESSSSSSSSGOOOOOOO” are solid
choices. Third, living in New England, the battle lines of Red Sox vs Yankees
are very clear and taken very seriously. Telling your doctor that you are a red
sox fan when she bleeds the Yankees pinstripes can inevitably lead to her “ALMOST”
dropping your slippery child upon birth. Just be indifferent and say you like
sewing and pottery. Finally and most
importantly for you expecting first-time fathers, many removable parts will be
laid on the table to the side or end of the bed. These things are not souvenirs.
Any man that says that they are with a straight face is a liar or is being worked like a
puppet. The doctors don’t care that you
find them gross and will make it as hard as possible for you to move around and avoid these things. Do yourself a favor
and lose weight so you can easily slip between the table and the wall to take
pictures.
Next week, I will tell you all about the first time you meet
your child, the admiration you will have for your woman until the day you die.
Your baby will be the most beautiful thing you've ever seen …. About 10 minutes
after he’s born. This ties into next
week’s title…………………
“Why Does My Baby
Look Like An Alien”